Ok… so for all idealists such as myself who want to change the world see things better than they are … What dawns to me is that we can’t control other people and we can’t control what decisions our president makes etc.
But what we can control is OURSELVES , so as Michael Jackson’s song says ( and many other wise sayings) ” take a look at yourself and make a change…” the first step in changing the current situation that you are in is changing yourself.. If you want love, be loving , if you want people to be social with you , YOU be social start the conversations.
It is easy to complain about your partner, friends etc but what only you can do is see what YOU can do to make things better and DO IT then leave the rest to others. The best way to lead is through example
Its a great responsibility and freedom to know that YOU create your world, your experiences its only through your lenses that you experience perceived reality .